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Exodus 20:1-17 Mark 15:6-10 The purpose of the Lenten season is to take an inventory of our lives to identify an area where we need and want to grow. Self‑examination is neither a simple nor an easy task. We resist looking deeply into ourselves because we are afraid of what we may have submerged in our lives. One of the things we may discover hidden beneath the surface of our lives is envy. Envy is a deadly sin that destroys everyone it touches. The biblical word “covet” is a synonym for envy. The tenth commandment states, "No covet" and serves as a summary commandment wrapping up all the commandments involving the relationships between people. This command is an early insight that a person’s inner life determines the person’s destiny. Envy denotes not only improper thought with regard to what rightfully belongs to another but also involves the overt attempt to destroy the other person so she cannot have what is rightfully hers. There is nothing wrong in observing a well adjusted family and desiring that your family be well adjusted. However, if my family is not well adjusted and I am motivated to destroy your family so you cannot enjoy being well adjusted then, envy is at work in me. Jealousy and envy often are mentioned together. They are similar to each other but are not synonymous. Jealousy is a burning desire within me to have what you have. I am unhappy because I do not have what you have, and I begin to plot ways to get what you have. Envy is much more destructive. When I am envious I am unhappy because you have what I want. If I can't have and enjoy what you have, what is yours, then I don’t want you to have it either. I will destroy you so you can't have and enjoy what I want. Jealousy and envy are both destructive, but envy is worse and more destructive than jealousy. Every sin is the perversion of the good. Envy often demonstrates this truth. Envy is our tendency and desire to pull down or put down anyone who is exceptional. At times there is an aspect in our attitudes toward others that looks for the worst in people. If we cannot find it, we will seek to create it in them, often by projecting onto them our own wrongs, weaknesses, and sins. Henry Fairlie has suggested that the gossip column is our cultural symbol of envy. We suggest that a good person must have a seamy side. When a good deed is done we wonder aloud about the ulterior motive of the person. We conclude that a successful business person must be cheating somebody. An accomplished professional must have connections. We suggest that doctors and lawyers entered their professions for the money. We conclude that no one would do what they do to be of help to people because we certainly wouldn't do that. Thomas Aquinas suggested that envy is sorrow for another's good. Frederick Buechner puts it this way, "Envy is the consuming desire to have everybody as unsuccessful as you are." Envy is sorrow at another's success and joy over another's misfortune. The envious person's face turns sad and bitter when another has good fortune and smiles when another fails. Envy causes one to conclude that what misfortune happened to another served him right or she got what she deserved. Envy turns Paul's instruction upside down (Rom. 12:15) when he said for us to weep with those who weep and rejoice with those who rejoice. When we are ruled by envy we weep with those who rejoice and rejoice when others weep. Dorothy Sayers has written of envy, "It begins by asking, plausibly: Why should not I enjoy what others enjoy? And it ends by demanding: Why should others enjoy what I may not? Envy is the great leveler: if it cannot level things up, it will level things down." Matthew (20:15) told the story of the master who hired workers throughout the day and promised to pay each one the same amount of wages. At the end of the day those who had worked all day were angry at the master and envious of those who worked only one hour for the same pay as they had received. The master asked them, "Is your eye evil because I am good? Are you envious because I am generous?" The Bible portrays envy as a sin of the eyes and describes the envious as evil eyed. Dante identified those who were guilty of envy in Purgatory as having eyes sewn shut with iron thread. Green is the color often associated with envy. Green of complexion is associated with sickness, unless you’re Shrek. Envy is a form of emotional and spiritual gangrene that eventually will kill us. Envy as spiritual gangrene turns us green because it makes us sick. The color green may be beautiful and lively in plants, but it is a sickening and deadly sign in any human complexion where it appears. The grass is greener on the other side of the fence. The greenness begins to be reflected in the face of the envious person, and it is the sign of a sickness and sin that destroys and crucifies. Green is a mixture of blue and yellow. When a person does not get the proper amount of oxygen he turns blue. If a part of the body does not have proper circulation, it turns blue. Jealousy is associated with the color yellow perhaps because it is like bile that poisons the physical system if it is not properly eliminated from the body. Envy blocks the circulation of God's grace because the envious person wants the grace of God for himself but is not willing to allow God's grace to flow through him to others. Thus envy turns a person green because it blocks the flow of grace which, like oxygen, is essential for our survival, and envy retains the poison of jealousy within a person's life. This colorful description of envy may help us know what envy is. We admit more readily how envy destroys the one who is envied because we can identify situations when we have felt the envy of another. We can recall the sensation that we had at the time that another person wanted us, not just out of the way, but out of life. Often envy causes one person to project blame, fault‑finding, or weakness onto another. Envy comes from insecurity that a person has about herself. An insecure person may detect quickly a like weakness in another person or project his own weakness onto that person and then proceed to tear down the other person's life or reputation because of the perceived threat. Envy destroys another person because I am afraid that her success or accomplishment will destroy me. Envy fuels our efforts and methods to get rid of another person. The next step is to confess our envy to God. By naming the sin to God is a means of gaining control of envy rather than envy controlling us. The sin of envy is our way of seeking to deny the goodness of God to others. It is ultimate selfishness. Envy is our way of saying that we deserve the grace of God but others do not. Frankly, nobody deserves God's grace, but to receive the grace of God for ourselves, and then, to refuse to allow it to flow through us to others is the epitome of arrogance and sinfulness. Confessing our sins of envy to God gives our sins to the only One who really can deal with them properly, adequately, mercifully. We were slaves to passions and pleasures of all kinds. We spent our lives in malice and envy. . . . But when the kindness and love of God was revealed, God saved us. It was not because of any good deeds that we ourselves had done, but because of God’s own mercy that God saved us, through the Holy Spirit, who gives us new birth and new life by washing us (Titus 3:3‑6, TEV). Notes 1. Henry Fairlie, The Seven Deadly Sins Today, (Washington, D. C.: New Republic Books, 1978), p. 64.
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